All the romance falls apart when the antipathy between your friend and your cat becomes obvious. (It is valid for both sexes). If you love me, don’t hate my cat, you should tell him.
Feline behaves as if he has occupied her territory. For this reason, he tries with all his might and by all means to remove the intruder. The cat bites, spits, scratches, meows loudly, aggressively, etc. On the other hand, your boyfriend looks at the cat in horror.
It reads on his face that all he wants most is to get rid of her as soon as possible. Your house seems to have turned into a battlefield overnight. Worse, there is no reconciliation solution between the two. Give up your cat or tell your boyfriend not to visit your house anymore? Neither. You must first establish with your boyfriend: if you love me, don’t hate my cat. Then you have to follow my advice, which I hope will make your life more beautiful. Success!
From the moment the person you have always dreamed of enters your life, the world around you begins to painted in vivid, sparkling colors. The eyes light up, the words are meaningless. Time seems to standstill. The candlelight, the music and the aroma of champagne make you dizzy with happiness. In a word, Love has spread its silk wings over your soul.
As your lips are ready to kiss and your heart revealed to the heart of your loved one, you hear the aggressive hiss from a corner of the room, followed by the cat’s disapproving meow. Looking in that direction, you discover with surprise the expression of hostility on the cat’s face.
At the same time, the lover’s gaze tightens and leaves the tension and insecurity to read. One thing is clear: he doesn’t like cats and he doesn’t like cats either. It seems that none of them is willing to live in a common space. They are both proud and never going to make concessions.
Don’t completely disarm yourself from the first moment! There are chances, however, that your cat and boyfriend will end up accepting each other. In time, they can become best friends.
If that gentleman is very serious about his feelings for you, he will not run away from the first conflict. Then explaining by fax, letter or email: “My dear, you are an adorable being, but your cat can’t stand me … and neither can I.” On the contrary, he was trying to make friends with the small and temperamental feline.
Some psychologists say that most men find it humiliating, lacking in dignity and “manly” to show affection for cats. They are rigid, indifferent and try to look tough and confident, especially when they come around animals.
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On the other hand, cats are territorial animals. The strong feelings of affection they feel for their owners push them to become jealous. Not only are they upset by the presence of a stranger in the house, but they are extremely upset if they notice that their owner’s attention redirected to the newcomer.
The situations that can generated are extremely varied. Some cats reject a person who might be the ideal match for you. Others sympathize with her at first sight or ignore her. And finally, others show a terrible hatred for the intruder.
As long as your boyfriend wants to win the cat’s sympathy, things aren’t so bad. It is advisable to tell your friend to document himself by using books or specialized magazines. They explain in detail the behavior and personality of little cats.
Many people confuse the independent nature of cats with indifference, or even worse, with antipathy. These attitudes sometimes hurt the pride of these people. A little more patience and understanding could solve such problems. It would be beneficial for both parties to explain to your lover how affectionate, cute and playful cats are. It can be a real pleasure to have such pets around. I will reveal five tricks that do not fail to encourage the friendship between the cat and your boyfriend.
Let the cat take the first step
You probably know how unpleasant the insistent glances can be. The same thing happens with your cat, who will feel upset for this reason. Her instinct pushes her to avoid strangers. But if you give her peace, she will approach alone, out of curiosity, to get acquainted with the newcomer on her territory.
Make sure your friend that could bind a friendship very nice whit your cat
if the cat has reacted negatively (is withdrawn, hampered by the new presence, spitting or becomes aggressive), and your friend puzzled by the attitude of the cat, trying to explain that lasting relationships built over time. They must not influenced by the first impression created.
Explain to your boyfriend some aspects of feline behavior
Your boyfriend needs to know that cats are often scared of strangers. In some situations, he behaves aggressively, apparently for no reason. This is due to their strong self-defence instinct.
Arm your lover with small cat delights
The saying “love goes through the stomach” is also valid for cats. It has observed that they establish an emotional connection with the people who feed them much faster. Let your boyfriend supply the kitten’s favorite croquettes daily. If they prefer a certain type of food, then your boyfriend should try to win the sympathy by “bribing” it with samples from that range. You will surprised to see how quickly the cat will “fall in love” with your lover.
Urge your friend to play with the cat
The game is also very important for cats. Give your friend your favorite cat toy and show him how to play with the cat. They will soon get to know each other and enjoy the time spent together.
I confess that I was very lucky with my husband. He has loved cats since childhood. But his childhood story is sad. That’s why in the first year of my marriage I gave Jessie a cat as a gift. Then a long line of cats began to come to our house. You can read the story on the blog, in the category: PERSONAL STORIES WITH MY CATS. It’s just that I haven’t written about all my cats yet. Next time.
But if you’re not lucky, don’t despair. With patience and understanding, your boyfriend can become a very good friend with your cat. You just have to follow my advice. But if he is not serious about his feelings for you and tells you to give the cat, my advice is to look. It’s not your partner.
Please leave me a comment if you liked my post. I would be happy to describe your experience with your boyfriend versus your cat. Thank you.
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